How to get people to WANT to be around you:

The way you get a girl to want to see you again and again is:

make her feel good when she's with you

This principle applies not only to girls. It applies to everybody. In fact, a related principle is

make them feel good about themselves in your presence. Then they feel good about you.

Sometimes you can mix things up and make her consider what it's like to be without you... or make her work a bit for your attention and other resources. But you also have to give freely. Those who can afford, give when others need, and expect others to like them. Those who have one dimension to them play games and hope to generate something from nothing. People sense these things.

In short, be genuinely interested in others, and make your primary goal to make others feel good about being with you, rather than making others interested in you. Read Dale Carnegie.